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		<title>Take the Jesuits with you via your iPhone or iPad: New App allows Users to Find Nearby Jesuit Institutions, Latest News and Jesuit Prayers</title>
		<link>http://www.jesuit.org/blog/index.php/2012/06/take-the-jesuits-with-you-via-your-iphone-or-ipad-new-app-allows-users-to-find-nearby-jesuit-institutions-latest-news-and-jesuit-prayers/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jun 2012 13:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Across the United States, the Society of Jesus, the U.S.’s largest order of priests and brothers in the Roman Catholic Church, runs universities, high schools and middle schools, parishes and retreat houses.  And today, the 450-year-old religious order has an app. Available for free at the iTunes App Store, the Jesuit app operates on any [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Across the United States, the <a href="http://www.jesuit.org" target="_blank">Society of Jesus</a>, the U.S.’s largest order of priests and brothers in the Roman Catholic Church, runs universities, high schools and middle schools, parishes and retreat houses.  And today, the 450-year-old religious order has an app.</p>
<p>Available for free at the iTunes App Store, the Jesuit app operates on any iPhone, iPod Touch or iPad; a similar app will soon be available at the Android Marketplace for use on devices such as the Droid, Evo and HTC Touch.</p>
<p>The new app allows users to locate Jesuit retreat centers, schools and parishes across the U.S., read the latest news and information about the Jesuits, and access Jesuit prayers and spirituality documents.</p>
<p>The app’s three sections include:<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>Locations</strong><br />
Here users can find Jesuit apostolates – parishes, retreat centers, colleges and universities. It includes easy-to-use directions and contact information for any Jesuit institution in the U.S. and is searchable by apostolate name, by the user’s current location or through any address the user enters.</p>
<p><strong>News</strong><br />
All the latest news stories from National Jesuit News are displayed here.  Users can tap on any headline to view the full story, share the link with friends or open the story in their browser.</p>
<p><strong>Prayer</strong><br />
In this section, users can view prayers, spirituality documents and background information on the Society of Jesus.</p>
<p>The video below explains in more detail how the app operates. Visit the app information page <a href="http://www.jesuit.org/about/press-and-publications/mobile/" target="_blank">here</a> to find out more.</p>
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		<title>Jesuit Taking a Scientific Approach to Prayer</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2012 14:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Believers in every religion and through every century of human history have done something they can’t quite describe, justify or do without. They pray. They may meditate, contemplate, recite, babble or immerse themselves in silence. They may seek solitude or seek company to pray with others. They may follow the rules of a liturgy, improvise [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_5283" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 290px"><a href="http://www.jesuit.org/blog/index.php/2012/02/jesuit-taking-a-scientific-approach-to-prayer/rupert_chris/" rel="attachment wp-att-5283"><img class="size-full wp-image-5283" title="rupert_chris" src="http://www.jesuit.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/rupert_chris.jpg" alt="" width="280" height="280" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Jesuit Father Chris Rupert brings a systematic mind to prayer. // Photo by Michael Swan</p></div>
<p>Believers in every religion and through every century of human history have done something they can’t quite describe, justify or do without. They pray.</p>
<p>They may meditate, contemplate, recite, babble or immerse themselves in silence. They may seek solitude or seek company to pray with others. They may follow the rules of a liturgy, improvise or seek a simple, direct encounter with God.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.jesuit.org">Jesuit</a> Father Chris Rupert brings a systematic mind to the subject. His PhD combined Scripture studies with statistical modelling and social sciences. For the last 30 years as a pastor, theologian and retreat leader, now at Manresa Jesuit Spiritual Retreat Centre in Pickering, Ontario, Canada, Rupert has thought scientifically, systematically and precisely about what people are doing when they pray.</p>
<p>“When people get a sense of God in prayer, it depends on their social situation,” Rupert told Canada&#8217;s Catholic Register in a wide-ranging discussion of his research. “If my life situation changes, prayer will change.”</p>
<p>As Rupert taught people classic Ignatian prayer techniques he began to think about the way expectations and terminology were predetermining how people experience prayer.</p>
<p>“The question I ask myself in my examination of conscience determines often what I get out of it — or what I don’t get out of it,” he said.<br />
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In the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius people are instructed in the “examen” to review their entire experience of the day and ask themselves when they encountered consolation and when they found desolation. Consolation is not the same as happiness or satisfaction. Desolation is different from sadness and disappointment.</p>
<p>By consolation, St. Ignatius meant an awareness of agreement between the situation and one’s own emotional reaction. Great sadness at the death of a friend would be an experience of consolation. Desolation is a disconnect between emotions and the situation. Laughing at the funeral is an experience of desolation.</p>
<p>Many people find the language of consolation and desolation difficult. Rupert will start people off with a simpler concept.</p>
<p>“Where today did I get the most comfort? Where did I get the most discomfort?” he asks.</p>
<p>Rupert acknowledges a danger in focussing on comfort. It could turn the whole exercise into a self-indulgent system for perfect hedonism. If things tend in that direction, Rupert will start asking about their sense of God’s presence — when did they feel gratitude to God, a desire to be free of resentment or a willingness to accept God’s will?</p>
<p>The trouble is that people are much more used to thinking of their experience in terms of efficiency, happiness and profit. Prayer should move people in the direction of ultimate questions about a purpose in life and our participation in the life of the Trinity.</p>
<p>“At each stage in prayer, things can go disastrously wrong,” said Rupert. “Prayer can be devil worship too. If I’m cultivating resentments, cultivating being independent, cultivating a my-way-or-the-highway attitude — I’m pretty much in league with the devil.”</p>
<p>By looking at prayer systematically, using the insights of social science, Rupert hopes to unlock the secrets of how prayer goes wrong and how it goes right.</p>
<p>“Prayer should help one find a sense of God’s presence. If it doesn’t, what are the causes?” he asks.</p>
<p>Rupert figures it may take a couple of years to put his filing cabinet full of notes into a readable book. But he’s after a rational, scientific explanation of the central mechanism of a life of the spirit.</p>
<p>“Prayer is always an encounter. I encounter God through myself, through others or through my environment,” he said.</p>
<p>There’s nothing odd about trying to be precise about prayer, he said.</p>
<p>“For some people that would be the case,” he said. “I find it very helpful in teaching people to find the type of prayer that works for them.”</p>
<p>[<a href="http://www.catholicregister.org/home/item/13691-jesuit-taking-a-scientific-approach-to-prayer">Canada's Catholic Register</a>]</p>
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		<title>Serving God as a Spiritual Director at Eastern Point Retreat House</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 14:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jesuit Father Paul Michael Sullivan serves as spiritual director at the Eastern Point Retreat House in Gloucester, Mass. &#8220;Everybody has a vocation,&#8221; he said. &#8220;God is no further from ourselves than we are.&#8221; Here, Fr. Sullivan&#8217;s mission is to help spiritual seekers grow in their relationship with God and in willing service to their neighbor. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4991" title="Michael_Sullivan" src="http://www.jesuit.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Michael_Sullivan-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /><a href="http://www.jesuit.org" target="_blank">Jesuit</a> Father Paul Michael Sullivan serves as spiritual director at the Eastern Point Retreat House in Gloucester, Mass.</p>
<p>&#8220;Everybody has a vocation,&#8221; he said. &#8220;God is no further from ourselves than we are.&#8221;</p>
<p>Here, Fr. Sullivan&#8217;s mission is to help spiritual seekers grow in their relationship with God and in willing service to their neighbor. He compared a relationship with God to a human friendship.</p>
<p>&#8220;They have the same dynamics,&#8221; he said. &#8220;If you want to be friends with someone, spend time with him — listen to him.&#8221;</p>
<p>His calling to the priesthood came gradually, a gentle nudge throughout his high school and college years.</p>
<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t think it was any one moment of time,&#8221; he said.</p>
<p>When he inquired about the possibility of a vocation, he was advised to go to college first.</p>
<p>Sullivan attended the <a href="http://www.holycross.edu/" target="_blank">College of the Holy Cross</a> in Worcester, Mass., one of the nation&#8217;s leading liberal arts institutions that embraces a Catholic/Jesuit identity. There, he majored in history.</p>
<p>&#8220;Eventually I thought about the Jesuits to be both a priest and teacher,&#8221; he said. &#8220;I got to know quite a number of Jesuits, many of them in their late 30s and 40s, who seemed interesting and happy.&#8221;</p>
<p>When Sullivan graduated in 1973, he was at a crossroads.</p>
<p>&#8220;I did apply to do graduate work in history or American studies and got accepted in a couple of places, or I could join the Jesuits,&#8221; he said.</p>
<p>Sullivan has spent time teaching high school in Maine and Massachusetts and also as a parish priest.</p>
<p>&#8220;I was open to another couple of years of parish work. I enjoyed being pastor,&#8221; he said. &#8220;But as things evolved, I ended up at <a href="http://www.easternpoint.org/" target="_blank">Eastern Point Retreat House</a> in Gloucester.</p>
<p>Noted for the spectacular beauty of its rocks, ocean and woods, the retreat house provides an idyllic environment for contemplation and prayer.</p>
<p>This is Sullivan&#8217;s third year as a member of the staff, which includes four Jesuits and a Sister of St. Joseph.</p>
<p>Based on the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius, the retreats are open to people of diverse backgrounds and traditions who are seeking God in their lives.</p>
<p>&#8220;How do you see where God may be calling you? Sullivan said. &#8220;It is where your deepest desires intersect with the community&#8217;s deepest needs.&#8221;</p>
<p>You can read more about Fr. Sullivan&#8217;s experiences and about the Eastern Point Retreat House at <a href="http://www.southcoasttoday.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20111210/SPECIAL/112100311/1018/OPINION" target="_blank">SouthCoastToday.com</a>.</p>
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		<title>Jesuit Writes About Life as a Spiritual Director</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 13:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jesuit Father John Murray says that when people ask him what it’s like to be a spiritual director, his answer is always the same. “Spiritual director is to be more a companion on the journey, than a person who has the answers to another’s concerns,” he writes in a reflection. Fr. Murray writes that his [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3889" title="Jesuit Father John Murray " src="http://www.jesuit.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/murray-john2.jpg" alt="Jesuit Father John Murray " width="192" height="140" /><a href="http://www.jesuit.org">Jesuit</a> Father John Murray says that when people ask him what it’s like to be a spiritual director, his answer is always the same. “Spiritual director is to be more a companion on the journey, than a person who has the answers to another’s concerns,” he writes in a reflection.</p>
<p>Fr. Murray writes that his life at <a href="http://www.easternpoint.org/">Eastern Point Retreat House</a> in Gloucester, Mass., where he is director, is a “wild mixture of listening, companioning and managing a good size inn!”</p>
<p>“With our staff of Jesuits and guest directors, we listen and focus and shine some light into darkened hearts,” writes Murray.</p>
<p>He finds managing a retreat house is both a great challenge and a great joy.</p>
<p>“As I reflect on my years as a Jesuit; high school work, then principal, then socius and now as a retreat director, I marvel at how Jesus has become my true love and friend,” he writes.</p>
<p>Read more of <a href="http://www.jesuitvocation.org/jesuits/ministry/reflection_murray_john.shtml">Murray’s reflections</a>.</p>
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		<title>Jesuit Says Retreat is a Way to Experience God&#8217;s Presence</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Mar 2011 13:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Going on a retreat is a way people can experience the presence of God, according to <a href="http://www.jesuit.org/">Jesuit</a> Father Charles Moutenot, director of spiritual programs at <a href="http://www.loyola.org/">Loyola Jesuit House of Retreats</a> in Morristown, N.J.</p>
<p>“I see people come through those doors very, very tired. There&#8217;s a lot of noise in our world. They work very hard. They&#8217;re busy…I see them leave on Sunday rested,” Fr. Moutenot said. “Not simply rested as if they went to a spa and slept for a weekend. But really rested in the Lord.</p>
<p>“The second thing I see in people is that they are rejuvenated. They feel ready to go back to their jobs, their families, their churches and their ministries with a renewed vigor,” he said.</p>
<p>In the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k01reAtMPOM">video</a> below, Moutenot joins retreatants in explaining how a weekend retreat is an excellent way to come home to God.</p>
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<p>Going on a retreat is a way people can experience the presence of God, according to <a href="http://www.jesuit.org/">Jesuit</a> Father Charles Moutenot, director of spiritual programs at <a href="http://www.loyola.org/">Loyola Jesuit House of Retreats</a> in Morristown, N.J.</p>
<p>“I see people come through those doors very, very tired. There&#8217;s a lot of noise in our world. They work very hard. They&#8217;re busy…I see them leave on Sunday rested,” Fr. Moutenot said. “Not simply rested as if they went to a spa and slept for a weekend. But really rested in the Lord.</p>
<p>“The second thing I see in people is that they are rejuvenated. They feel ready to go back to their jobs, their families, their churches and their ministries with a renewed vigor,” he said.</p>
<p>In the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k01reAtMPOM">video</a> below, Moutenot joins retreatants in explaining how a weekend retreat is an excellent way to come home to God.</p>
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		<title>Jesuit Shares His Experiences as a Spiritual Director</title>
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<p><a href="http://www.jesuit.org">Jesuit</a> Father Joseph Tetlow is the director of <a href="http://www.montserratretreat.org/">Montserrat Jesuit Retreat House</a> in Lake Dallas, Texas where he gives retreats, workshops and writes. Before his came to Montserrat, Fr. Tetlow spent several years in Rome as head of the Jesuit General’s Secretariat for Ignatian Spirituality, guiding the efforts of 250 Jesuit retreat houses. Widely considered one of the Jesuits’ leading authorities on spiritual direction, Tetlow shares with <em>National Jesuit News</em> some of his thoughts on what being a spiritual director means to him in this piece:</p>
<p>Who is a spiritual director? “Someone people go to for spiritual direction.”</p>
<p>And how do you know who’s a good spiritual director? “Someone people keep going to.”</p>
<p>There’s a lot of truth in that old saying. But it leaves a lot out. I’ve been giving spiritual direction one way or another for fifty years: to scholastics, tertians, retreatants, priests and religious, lay men and women. I still find it mysterious that people come to me, and I to another (only a fool gives it without getting it).  But I see three things that help people to come: charism, position and being a listener.</p>
<p>People come because you have a charism. Many have gifts that draw people to them for companioning or guidance. They can be helped with some formation. Jesuits have put a lot of energy into that and now our lay colleagues have taken it up. Certainly we need a lot more spiritual helpers; at Montserrat, we cannot help all who ask.</p>
<p>The second clear reason why people come: a position you are in. A number of years ago, a priest came to tell me that he was thinking of taking a leave to decide his future. He came to me as spiritual director of clergy. We worked and prayed together for a long while and he remains a good pastor.</p>
<p>People need to know that telling you something is like dropping a stone in a well. It goes nowhere.  I don’t even tell who sees me. They also need to feel that you can handle whatever they have to tell you. What that might be differs vastly. In the past few months, I’ve helped a man split from his business partner, a priest choose holiness, a woman deepen her prayer and a person contemplating suicide choose life.</p>
<p>A Jesuit at Montserrat, as at any Jesuit retreat house, is placed to help a lot of people.</p>
<p>A third reason people come is that you’re known as a listener. “Listen first and then listen again” begins the seminar on ignatian direction that I run at Perkins School of Theology at Southern Methodist University in Dallas. This listening isn’t a skill or habit the director has – it isn’t about the director at all. It’s about the people who come: they have to leave you consoled that they have been listened to and heard. It’s the first way you help people know God: you let them know they are heard.</p>
<p>Charism, position and listening are basic to all spiritual direction. But in my experience, Ignatian direction has to be ready to go beyond them. It is distinctive in several ways that suit it to our time. Here are four big ones.</p>
<p>First, the Ignatian spiritual director wants passionately to help people know Jesus Christ. It is not first of all about choosing a vocation or reforming life or making spiritual progress.  It’s not about “who I am.” It’s about who Jesus is in my life. That’s what you can give them – if you have it to give. <em>Nemo dat quod non habet. </em>So know Jesus better, love Him more, and let the disciple “grow like the Master” (Luke 6:40).</p>
<p>Second, the God we seek is an active God. I recently sent a woman another director’s phone number because her prayer of quiet sought the God of quiet. Ignatian spirituality seeks the busy God, active in all things, creating us momently. This realizes the third point of the Contemplation: intimate knowledge of God always acting in His gifts. We bring people to Jesus of Nazareth who said that He could do “only what He sees the Father doing.” (John 5:20).  The Father <em>doing.</em></p>
<p>Then, third, we offer “discernment.” We don’t own the word. In the <em>Catechism, </em>obeying conscience requires discernment. But we mean a specific discernment: the movement of spirits.  We talk about it a lot, not always entirely accurately. Some discern to find out what they authentically feel and desire, expecting that to be God’s will. Some work out how consolation or desolation connect with serving God. But in my experience, not many get as far as genuine discernment of spirits in everyday life.</p>
<p>It’s a cultural thing. Secular Americans cannot comprehend the idea of a spirit different from mine <em>within my self</em>, working busily for its own aims and purposes.  It took me decades to really grasp the discernment of spirits and I still work at it. Many directors I know, if they do grasp it, are not so zealous to apply it.</p>
<p>A final, fourth, mark of Ignatian spiritual direction: you actually <em>direct </em>people. You don’t do it all the time with everyone. Most of the time, you are accompanying or guiding. But at times, you <em>direct</em>. You tell a desolate woman to change her prayer as it’s mainly self-absorption. You instruct a young Jesuit not to change his current way of praying. You challenge a married woman, telling her that she would be wise to break off a relationship that is disturbing her marriage. You do none of this easily or without reflecting, and never harshly or judgmentally.  But you do it.</p>
<p>Truly <em>directing </em>goes against American expressive individualism. We yearn to know and have “what I authentically want,” so no one can tell us much of anything. Sr. Marian Cowan, C.S.J., a justly renowned director, prefers to talk about “spiritual companioning.” That’s how most of the Episcopalian and Methodist theologians I teach think. It is fruitful and probably what any of us do most of the time.</p>
<p>And it’s very Jesuit, the reason the first Jesuits were the First Companions. But look what happened when they made the Spiritual Exercises. Master Ignatius directed them, surely at a balance to let the Spirit work directly. Each elected a way of life and kept it secret. Then one day on Montmartre, they all told what they had chosen individually: a life of apostolic poverty, Jerusalem, Rome.  The same choice.  It might have been a miracle, but probably not. Before and outside the retreat, Ignatius <em>directed </em>them.</p>
<p>So I go back to where I started. It’s a mystery why a person so incomplete and imperfect – who is more correct than most when he says at Mass, “I have sinned through my own fault” – it’s a mystery why people should come to such a person. It’s humiliating. It’s profoundly gratifying. And it’s a very insistent way to die to self.</p>
<p><em>You can listen to an interview with Fr. Tetlow from the 2009 Spiritual Directors International Conference in this video.</em></p>
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		<title>Jesuit Retreat Program for the Homeless Highlighted in the St. Louis Review</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The St. Louis Review features a story on the Ignatian Spirituality Project, a Chicago-based nonprofit organization that offers retreats, based on the Ignatian spiritual exercises, for homeless individuals.The goal is to help the homeless develop a deeper relationship with God and find meaning and purpose as they get their lives back on track — and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-365" title="homelessretreat2" src="http://www.jesuit.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/homelessretreat2.jpg" alt="homelessretreat2" width="400" height="266" />The <a href="http://stlouisreview.com/">St. Louis Review </a>features a story on the <a href="http://www.ignatianspiritualityproject.org/">Ignatian Spirituality Project,</a> a Chicago-based nonprofit organization that offers retreats, based on the Ignatian spiritual exercises, for homeless individuals.The goal is to help the homeless develop a deeper relationship with God and find meaning and purpose as they get their lives back on track — and someday end their homelessness.</p>
<p>Since its inception, about 150 overnight retreats have been held in a dozen cities across the United States, with the hope of expanding to several other cities by 2010. In St. Louis, the program was introduced about a year ago, when the project&#8217;s coordinators in Chicago approached St. Patrick Center, the Catholic Charities agency that is Missouri&#8217;s largest provider of services for the homeless.</p>
<p>Ann Rotermund, senior director of mental health programs at St. Patrick Center, said she &#8220;jumped at the chance&#8221; when leaders at the agency were contacted by Chicago organizers about offering the retreats in St. Louis.</p>
<p>&#8220;We&#8217;d been doing meditation (with clients) three times a week,&#8221; said Rotermund. &#8220;So we knew people were hungry for this sense of quiet and peace. It&#8217;s funny how this kind of fell in our lap.&#8221;</p>
<p>To read more about the Ignatian Spirituality Project&#8217;s impact in St. Louis, go <a href="http://stlouisreview.com/article/2009-11-24/homeless-individuals-">here</a>. Photographer Lisa A. Johnston has created a multimedia presentation on the Ignatian Spirituality Project in St. Louis, <a href="http://stlouisreview.com/article/2009-11-17/slideshow-retreat-hom">click here to view</a>. </p>
<p>Watch the video below for an overview of the purpose of the Ignatian Spirituality Project.<br />
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